That's where I am now. Gained my membership to the club of the 40s. What happens from here? God knows! and I can't wait to find out.
Mcdull
(birthday 'boy')
2011年8月12日星期五
2011年8月7日星期日
Where to go for our year end vacation?
Yesterday noon, we have been cracking our heads where to go for our year end vacation, we felt that we really need a good break by the end of the year.
End of last year we had a short but relaxing trip at Penang, after moving in to our new home. Heavy work load and bigger responsiblity in work place this year, we both have been postponed our trips. Ocassionally we would go JB for a movie, eating and shopping, but it is just a single day trip.
Finally we have decided, this year we will go Australia, as New Zealand is not really safe due to natural disasters. We want to go somewhere farther and non Asian country. My preference will be Europe or New York, but the weather is not going to be pleasant for a trip.
I should have planned for Europe or US when i was younger, now even a day trip in Batam island last week left me with back ache. I am getting old for sure.
After the decision was made, Porky and i munching on the meal i cooked, Bak Ku Teh , Fried Kailan, Steamed Tofu. Thats the pig s life.
Darby
End of last year we had a short but relaxing trip at Penang, after moving in to our new home. Heavy work load and bigger responsiblity in work place this year, we both have been postponed our trips. Ocassionally we would go JB for a movie, eating and shopping, but it is just a single day trip.
Finally we have decided, this year we will go Australia, as New Zealand is not really safe due to natural disasters. We want to go somewhere farther and non Asian country. My preference will be Europe or New York, but the weather is not going to be pleasant for a trip.
I should have planned for Europe or US when i was younger, now even a day trip in Batam island last week left me with back ache. I am getting old for sure.
After the decision was made, Porky and i munching on the meal i cooked, Bak Ku Teh , Fried Kailan, Steamed Tofu. Thats the pig s life.
Darby
2011年8月3日星期三
Fired the bitch
Last month in my department, we had a new comer from a local polytechnic female fresh grad, she is only 21 yrs old, who i am really uncomfortable with her attitude at work and scheming personality, not mentioning being fat and her idiotic look.
The bitch was demanding me as her boss, to address her name when assigning tasks, say thank you and please to her, seek her agreement on the assignment dateline, which i of course fuck care. Me no Mr Nice Guy. So last week I had a session with her with HR tried to be the mediator , she pretended to succumb to my supervision initially.
When she was sent for pre arranged training by the end of last week, i called to check on her decision to stay or leave the company as she promised to inform but did not, she complained to HR said that i harassed her every day. She even had the conversation recorded, but sadly to her, nothing is against me.
Yesterday she did not turn up at work and but called me to shout at me over the phone. I have made up my mind to get rid the bitch by today.
Today by 8 am, i sent her to a meeting room when she reached office, so as not to affect my staffs. Again the same strategy is used by her in front of HR today , making lots of false accusations, tried to make me looked evil. Luckily for me, HR is on my side, although the bitch played the mp3 of our teleconversation, there is nothing against me. I asked HR to put a stop to this whole clown show staged by the bitch, just get rid of her. I do not want to waste our time.
I felt ashamed for her parents, at 21 y/o , she is rotten to the core. Disrespectful to superior, scheming, evil tongue, shameless, lack of proper upbringing. I know we adults not anyway better, but at 21 y/o, she is a devil already, much much evil than most of the ppl i know.
I am not hiding, when i shut the office door after her, i shouted out in front of my subordinates "Thank God", loud enough for her to hear purposely. If i can afford, I want to put up a fire cracker show at Marina Bay, to celebrate her leaving.
It is like getting rid of a cancerous lump. I feel much better and relieved.
Bitch, you are just the right citizen for hell.
Darby
The bitch was demanding me as her boss, to address her name when assigning tasks, say thank you and please to her, seek her agreement on the assignment dateline, which i of course fuck care. Me no Mr Nice Guy. So last week I had a session with her with HR tried to be the mediator , she pretended to succumb to my supervision initially.
When she was sent for pre arranged training by the end of last week, i called to check on her decision to stay or leave the company as she promised to inform but did not, she complained to HR said that i harassed her every day. She even had the conversation recorded, but sadly to her, nothing is against me.
Yesterday she did not turn up at work and but called me to shout at me over the phone. I have made up my mind to get rid the bitch by today.
Today by 8 am, i sent her to a meeting room when she reached office, so as not to affect my staffs. Again the same strategy is used by her in front of HR today , making lots of false accusations, tried to make me looked evil. Luckily for me, HR is on my side, although the bitch played the mp3 of our teleconversation, there is nothing against me. I asked HR to put a stop to this whole clown show staged by the bitch, just get rid of her. I do not want to waste our time.
I felt ashamed for her parents, at 21 y/o , she is rotten to the core. Disrespectful to superior, scheming, evil tongue, shameless, lack of proper upbringing. I know we adults not anyway better, but at 21 y/o, she is a devil already, much much evil than most of the ppl i know.
I am not hiding, when i shut the office door after her, i shouted out in front of my subordinates "Thank God", loud enough for her to hear purposely. If i can afford, I want to put up a fire cracker show at Marina Bay, to celebrate her leaving.
It is like getting rid of a cancerous lump. I feel much better and relieved.
Bitch, you are just the right citizen for hell.
Darby
2011年7月24日星期日
2011年6月26日星期日
Holland Village
Piggy and i had a pillow talk on Sat noon on our bed for hours about his dad and work, this is rare bcs usually he would just fall asleep in 5 seconds when his head hit the pillow and i even have a voice record of Piggy s snoring sound. I am not happy about how he is treated by his family but i cannot go to them and shout in that person's face : Stop bullying my man. I just glad that he begin to face the fact that, not everyone is nice to you, when this happens, fight back.
I grew up in a chaotic family, where mum and dad are traditional chinese parents who would just make sure we are fed and dressed well, they have no energy to care for other needs. Brought up by my grandparents, I was the odd one out in my family as i am neither connected to my siblings nor to my parents, i learnt to protect myself very early and fight for myself. Now i began to see Piggy do the same as i did when i was much younger, he is a suckling pig with fangs now.
Love those who love you, for those who do not deserve just ignore them, for life is short. We should not bully others, but we do not let others bully us.
After the long chat, we then went to Holland Village HanSang Korean Restaurant for a great meal, to celebrate my new job and PR approval. Porky had his Ginseng Chicken and i Kimchi Udon, we then shared a fruity ice kachang. He was immoblised after the meal like a snake eaten an elephant, for the glutinous rice in the chicken stomach was too much for his effecient digestive system. We then walked a bit around that area, before we headed home.
Life is sweet. La Dolce Vita.
Darby
I grew up in a chaotic family, where mum and dad are traditional chinese parents who would just make sure we are fed and dressed well, they have no energy to care for other needs. Brought up by my grandparents, I was the odd one out in my family as i am neither connected to my siblings nor to my parents, i learnt to protect myself very early and fight for myself. Now i began to see Piggy do the same as i did when i was much younger, he is a suckling pig with fangs now.
Love those who love you, for those who do not deserve just ignore them, for life is short. We should not bully others, but we do not let others bully us.
After the long chat, we then went to Holland Village HanSang Korean Restaurant for a great meal, to celebrate my new job and PR approval. Porky had his Ginseng Chicken and i Kimchi Udon, we then shared a fruity ice kachang. He was immoblised after the meal like a snake eaten an elephant, for the glutinous rice in the chicken stomach was too much for his effecient digestive system. We then walked a bit around that area, before we headed home.
Life is sweet. La Dolce Vita.
Darby
2011年6月19日星期日
Aimee Mann _ Thats just what you are
From Melrose Place soundtrack, one of my fav song by a most underrated artist/song writer / singer in the 90s, Aimee Mann_ That s just what you are.
From movie Magnolia soundtrack, Aimee Mann _ Wise Up. A song that will make you cry.
From movie Magnolia soundtrack, last scene, Aimee Mann _ Save me.
Darby
2011年6月18日星期六
WEEKEND HOORAY?
Another weekend has arrived. This weekend will however not be one of those work free ones that I started to practise since the Cat returned from Shanghai more than a year ago.
First, there is this matter which I am working with my counterparts in Australia that we MUST complete by Monday. I bought them four weeks but they only gave me their instructions and documents on the last week to review and to work on them. Good luck to us. It's do or die.
Second, I have to bring my dad back from hospital after his long stay there. He is having his wish (to come home) granted this coming Father's Day. I hope the good man up there gives him all the strength to take care of himself and to function normally.
The only rest I see myself getting will be at HV - love abode for P&C (pig and cat). The Cat has been uncharacteristically sweet the last few days, seeing how stressed and worn out I am by work and my father. He does not pamper me as often as I would like (hehe). But on occasions when my energy is sapped, he knows when to ease things up for me a bit to relieve my burden.
The Cat has a decent level of sensitivity. Sadly, I can't say the same for my boss.
Mcdull
First, there is this matter which I am working with my counterparts in Australia that we MUST complete by Monday. I bought them four weeks but they only gave me their instructions and documents on the last week to review and to work on them. Good luck to us. It's do or die.
Second, I have to bring my dad back from hospital after his long stay there. He is having his wish (to come home) granted this coming Father's Day. I hope the good man up there gives him all the strength to take care of himself and to function normally.
The only rest I see myself getting will be at HV - love abode for P&C (pig and cat). The Cat has been uncharacteristically sweet the last few days, seeing how stressed and worn out I am by work and my father. He does not pamper me as often as I would like (hehe). But on occasions when my energy is sapped, he knows when to ease things up for me a bit to relieve my burden.
The Cat has a decent level of sensitivity. Sadly, I can't say the same for my boss.
Mcdull
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