肥猪今天又坐游轮。我们在11月15日刚刚坐皇家加勒比海回来，今天小肥猪又陪猪妈妈出海了。
今天刚好猫妈妈也来新加坡度假，这个周末是我们的家庭日。暂时要把对方都让给他的妈妈了。毕竟他们也上了年纪，不是每次都有出游的兴致。趁彼此缘分还在，尽我们的心力孝敬老人家吧。不止对父母如此态度，伴侣也是如此，我不会把什么事物当永恒。
肥猫
2013年7月21日星期日
Tired but feel blessed
After working for weeks like a dog since June , I finally went for another meditation camp with my friend Alien in early July. This time I could tahan longer without feeling my back is cracking into pieces at the end of every session, and I have more control over my mind. Overall , I feel my body is more accustomed to the long meditation sessions than the last one.
After the meditation camp, I plunged into another crazy week at work. At the end of the week, Porky cooked for me dinner for the 3 or 4 th time after years moving in to our place now, i must go buy toto. It was a good meal, sweet potato porridge , tao cheong with egg plant, eggs with onions, I truly enjoyed a good meal.
Last week is then another crazy week of study for a 5 days full time training course at a private institute. Since the first day of my course , I have fall sick ( thanks to piggy ) and have to burn midnight oil, for the 5days course is too packed for me to cope. Lots of exercises to be done each night and lots of memorizing for exam , I can only sleep for like 5 to 6 hours every day. Finally it is over, I do not think I want to try again.
We watched The Big C last night on the cable tv, and Susan Sarandan asked Cathy , when was the last time she felt joy in herself ? For me , it is always the trips with Piggy. We are now planning for our year end trip and the top 2 options are Japan and Australia.
I read some writings from a Thai monk, he said : 坚持完美的人和事这种概念是多余的，它只会制造不必要的痛苦。 Ppl are trying very hard to go for things that is pleasing to their senses, they want more and more and it is never enough. It would only create tension/ stress / pain / resistance to simple but good things in life. Everything that is too perfect looks fake, things with flaws look real. I would rather eat foods that is plain but with real ingredients , rather that something taste perfect but full of coloring / flavoring. Greedy for good smell / taste / appearance , and that is the reason why our foods are poisoned nowadays. He has also said that 无法自爱 的人， 没有能力去爱 别人。 I totally agree with that, I need to love myself more, after all I just learnt how to love someone else in the last ten years.
Darby
After the meditation camp, I plunged into another crazy week at work. At the end of the week, Porky cooked for me dinner for the 3 or 4 th time after years moving in to our place now, i must go buy toto. It was a good meal, sweet potato porridge , tao cheong with egg plant, eggs with onions, I truly enjoyed a good meal.
Last week is then another crazy week of study for a 5 days full time training course at a private institute. Since the first day of my course , I have fall sick ( thanks to piggy ) and have to burn midnight oil, for the 5days course is too packed for me to cope. Lots of exercises to be done each night and lots of memorizing for exam , I can only sleep for like 5 to 6 hours every day. Finally it is over, I do not think I want to try again.
We watched The Big C last night on the cable tv, and Susan Sarandan asked Cathy , when was the last time she felt joy in herself ? For me , it is always the trips with Piggy. We are now planning for our year end trip and the top 2 options are Japan and Australia.
I read some writings from a Thai monk, he said : 坚持完美的人和事这种概念是多余的，它只会制造不必要的痛苦。 Ppl are trying very hard to go for things that is pleasing to their senses, they want more and more and it is never enough. It would only create tension/ stress / pain / resistance to simple but good things in life. Everything that is too perfect looks fake, things with flaws look real. I would rather eat foods that is plain but with real ingredients , rather that something taste perfect but full of coloring / flavoring. Greedy for good smell / taste / appearance , and that is the reason why our foods are poisoned nowadays. He has also said that 无法自爱 的人， 没有能力去爱 别人。 I totally agree with that, I need to love myself more, after all I just learnt how to love someone else in the last ten years.
Darby
2013年5月8日星期三
We are going to Phuket
We have booked for air and hotel to Phuket end of May, meeting my friends of bad influence there , Alien and Ah Lee. Both Porky and i are exhausted, he is having a rough time this year because of work and family, so am I. We both sufferred abit.
Buddhism does not encourage to do good for your own selfish desire , such as to have good karma, but it does acknowledge that doing good things will improve your life as your energy will change to positive and attracts good things. We are not saints, but we harm no one and try to be good person most of the time, to animal / ppl / environment . Doing what you believe in, little by little , things will change for better.
Darby
Buddhism does not encourage to do good for your own selfish desire , such as to have good karma, but it does acknowledge that doing good things will improve your life as your energy will change to positive and attracts good things. We are not saints, but we harm no one and try to be good person most of the time, to animal / ppl / environment . Doing what you believe in, little by little , things will change for better.
Darby
2013年5月6日星期一
自备午餐
自从工作量越来越多后， 我两星期前开始自备午餐。
菜单如下：
1/ 生菜
2/ 番茄
3/ 芝士
4/火腿肉
5/水果
6/ 面包
7/ 水煮花椰菜和萝卜
8/自制腌黄瓜
9/袋装咖啡粉
以后我还想自己带腊肠炒饭，墨西哥餅皮，阿拉伯小米，麦片。
自备午餐的 好处是比较清淡无盐油，午餐后不会很睏， 感觉肚子很轻松， 无负担； 十五分钟吃完，不用外出排队买午餐，时间也多了出来。 坏处是： 没有和同事交流的机会，但我也不想再听他们的关于女性黄色笑话，听多了很腻。吃完了午餐还有半个小时，我会读书，投资或禅修类的较多。
下班后会外食，通常较不健康，可是也懒惰再弄晚餐了。
Darby
菜单如下：
1/ 生菜
2/ 番茄
3/ 芝士
4/火腿肉
5/水果
6/ 面包
7/ 水煮花椰菜和萝卜
8/自制腌黄瓜
9/袋装咖啡粉
以后我还想自己带腊肠炒饭，墨西哥餅皮，阿拉伯小米，麦片。
自备午餐的 好处是比较清淡无盐油，午餐后不会很睏， 感觉肚子很轻松， 无负担； 十五分钟吃完，不用外出排队买午餐，时间也多了出来。 坏处是： 没有和同事交流的机会，但我也不想再听他们的关于女性黄色笑话，听多了很腻。吃完了午餐还有半个小时，我会读书，投资或禅修类的较多。
下班后会外食，通常较不健康，可是也懒惰再弄晚餐了。
Darby
A day of Shame.............
I am disappointed with the result. May be they can doctor the result , they can never win the heart of ppl with their filthy acts before the election.
Darby
2013年4月14日星期日
重游永春园
今天我和生命中最爱我的妈妈和帅猫老公去了已营业84年之久的永春园吃中饭。地点是老公提议的。 老公说要请我妈妈吃饭，来孝敬她老人家。
我心想认识老公快十年了，但我们三个人很少一起出外用餐。又恰巧今天我的女佣周休。The timing's just nice。所以就一口答应老公的邀约。
出门前才从妈妈口中知道原来那也是她结婚时摆喜酒的地方。好巧！ 妈妈说好久没去永春园了。也不知道永春园已经搬到牛车水附近。
我们三个人吃了八样点心。食物的水准大致上都令我满意。价钱也还好。只是老公好像吃不惯太多油炸和几乎都是已肉为馅料的点心。妈妈也吃得不多。结果还是我做大胃王。把他们不吃的点心扫完。
我希望会有更多类似今天的三人行。也希望能有机会和老公的妈妈一起用餐。让我也能尽一份我的心意。
兜
我心想认识老公快十年了，但我们三个人很少一起出外用餐。又恰巧今天我的女佣周休。The timing's just nice。所以就一口答应老公的邀约。
出门前才从妈妈口中知道原来那也是她结婚时摆喜酒的地方。好巧！ 妈妈说好久没去永春园了。也不知道永春园已经搬到牛车水附近。
我们三个人吃了八样点心。食物的水准大致上都令我满意。价钱也还好。只是老公好像吃不惯太多油炸和几乎都是已肉为馅料的点心。妈妈也吃得不多。结果还是我做大胃王。把他们不吃的点心扫完。
我希望会有更多类似今天的三人行。也希望能有机会和老公的妈妈一起用餐。让我也能尽一份我的心意。
兜
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