2009年10月5日星期一

Together

i have been reading blogs from AJ couples today; they seem to be more loving than me and Piggy. I am indeed not a very good lover i guess, after pak tor with Piggy for almost 6 years. But i think we are getting along well , from the honeymoon days we only thot about meeting up right after work every day when we were in the offices, till we became the Old Couple who care for each other and begin to plan for our future by house hunting, we certainly grow old and mature together. And the trust is building up for this 3.5 years when i am in China, and i have turned down so many suitors (Spore boys and China girls) when he is not around :-), and i believe he is well behaved when i am not in Singapore.

My mummy told me today after lunch, if a couple is too loving, one of them will depart earlier, that's why she and her parents live a longer life because the spouses fight everyday. I rolled my eyes and thought, that is very much like us, i always bully piggy and he's always trying hard to stage a revolution to snatch back the authority as President in our little world (but he usually fails in the end). I am a tiger disguised in cat fur, and he is a real silly pig under human skin, he will never able to overthrow me no matter how hard he tries. hehehehe... But deep down in my heart, i know he gives way to me not bcs i am fierce but only bcs he cares for me. it is good to know that couples that fight will live longer, altho there is a limit for the scale of the conflict , we only have small catfights.

I know that together we will go places , go through hardships, fights and make up, learn new things , one will depart before the other, but i am really at ease because i know we are so so lucky that we have each other.

I will be flying back tomorrow to SH , and serve my notice period. I will go for my tour in China or elsewhere, and after that i will be back to Spore and stay put with Piggy for good.

Darby

A little bit of Shanghai

I have been taking some photos of SH city itself , the foods , the places , the things that i can see from the street. Unfortunately , i shared the same thoughts as my friend Alien told, Shanghainese is a far cry from being a lovely ppl. Old Shanghai , been the most capitalist city , it is full of filthy rich and mercenary stories / ppl. Hate and Love , this is what ppl feel about this city, depends on what they found from this city.

Ji Ang Temple , a Jap style Buddhist Temple. The lion is on top of the pagoda , and you can see the high rise building next to it.


Chang De Apartment , where Zhang Aileen lived.


Jin Ang District where Zhang Aileen lived.


The phoenix wearing Peony, a very symbolic fabric design of Shanghai.


Lychee from Guadong Province , namely the laugh of a concubine.



Pan Tao , yes , the peach that Sun Wo Kong stolen.

2009年10月4日星期日

Back for medical check up

I was back to Spore again on 1st Oct and spent two days with Piggy in Singapore. I was sufferring from abdominal pain and giddy spell recently and wish to get that diagnosed and cured before i start my year end trip in China or other places as i have tendered my resignation in early Sept .
It is strange that the pain is less severe when i am back to singapore ,maybe it is piggy's power that heals me ;-). Piggy was so tied up by work that he has to go to office early in the morning every day altho he took leave to keep me company. I can see his female boss is not very good to him as she dumps lots of work on him but the rewards are less than satisfactory. Piggy is a very diligent employee and has worked many years in his co; he was not in her good books untill all her fav employees left her a few years ago, but the female boss did not take good care of him and make him take up everything that she cannot handle herself. I really hope that she will wake up one day when piggy is headhunted by another firm. hmmmph.

After his work , piggy made his way back to the hotel to wake me (the lazy fat cat) up for breakfast together at the hotel . I had two days of good rest and piggy was arranging the hospital appointments and paying for my medical fees (it is quite ex as i am not a PR now ). I am very touched by his affectionate acts, he does not have to do so much for me but he did it. We spent some time at the pool teaching piggy free style swimming till we check out. I know we have a long long way to go, and i want to get myself recovered fully and back to Singapore for good, then he and i can have more quality time.

Piggy, Happy mid autumn. Thanks for everything you did.

When i was back to JB home yesterday , I took a small piece of sweet potato , 1/4 piece of a mooncake and 2 slice of pomela as I did not take my lunch. I vomited very badly about 1 hour after finishing all the foods. After that, i went to bed to lie down as i had no more energy to move my butts and my head was too heavy. Slept for 2 hours and i felt much better. I guess it is food poisoning but i dun know why.


Darby