Trauma is over

Porky and i went through some crisis this month,our house was infested by termites and i almost went crazy during the period of monitoring before the pest control came to check on the affected areas. Everyday i would reach home and check every corner of the house for the signs and i managed to find some , whenever it happened my heart sank. My new job started at the same time and i always reach home by 9 pm due to the long travel distance, i am exhausted whenever i reach home. Finally by this sunday i can feel relief that the problem is tackled and i can sit in my living room and enjoy some peace. And happened that today the sky is clear , view from living room window is breathtaking. I took a picture of that , and the black spot in the picture was a helicopter.

After few weeks of follow up actions , we managed to identify the affected areas and torn down these parts and threw them away. Then came the repair and replacement work to follow up. I am spending almost every weekend to follow up this issue, as Porky is sick and busy with his work. and whenever he is sick he will turn on his "Emperor" mode. He will behave like he is the emperor , sulky face , want attention for his illness, and ignore others existence. But that is him, and with my bad temper , we bound to crash. This is the second crisis.




And i hope bad things are over, including my new company's boss's health issue. I hope she recover soon. And god bless her.

I just want some peace, time for two of us to sit down and talk about our role for our home, our future. And i look forward to our trip together , we did not go for trip for half a year , bcs of the house , my new job and many many things. I want that, it is good for both of us , we need a break , a break much needed and postponed for so long, to spend more intimate time together.I know Porky is tired, and so am i.


Darby